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goals and progress...

at some point soon after our honeymoon i made a list of goals for our first year.  it wasn't so much a goal list as a to do list, but i called them goals just the same.  there were things for us as a couple, home improvement projects to tackle and budgets to be made.  i revisited this list recently and it turns out i was a little over zealous in my assumptions of what we'd accomplish in the house department during our first year.  and by 'a little' i actually mean 'a lot'.  but i must say we redeemed ourselves in the money management category where we made great strides and met a lot of goals, big and small.  i'm not gonna lie...i think dave would be proud.

so for this second year of marriage i made another list, and i think i did a better job of making this year's goals realistically attainable.  there are still some us goals [create some of our own traditions, go on two fancy dates, take a trip together], and we made some goals that have to do with others [basically a list of people we want to be sure to encourage and/or spend time with], obviously house projects made the list [have the floors refinished, paint the master bedroom, add closet shelving] and there's a general section as well [order our wedding album, do a 'week in the life' photo project, take walks]...just to name a few.

and the best news is we've already checked two things off the list and it's only the end of january!  last week we finally pulled the trigger on a big home improvement project we've been talking about for a year [and by 'we finally pulled the trigger' i mean i was finally ready to hand over the cash] and had our wood floors refinished.  i guess technically we can only check one and a half things off the list, because they haven't been back for the downstairs yet, but the upstairs looks great!


now to move all the furniture back upstairs because our living room currently looks like this...


the other item we scratched off the list is our wedding album, which was ordered on our first anniversary because i thought that seemed fun.  that and the fact that i needed a good six to nine months of agonizing over it before i actually clicked the order button.  but it's on the way and it's going to be fabulous.

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